It’s a peculiar and fascinating thing when a baby of any sort is born into this world. With absolutely no choice of its own, a baby is conceived. Two specialized cells come together to form an embryo, and through the delicate process of cell division, it quickly grows. Over time, the fetus develops to the point that […]
Get Drunk And buy a Car lately? Probably not.
It’s interesting that with all the safeguards our society has in place, there are very few for relationships. Let me explain. For example, in the state of California, it is illegal and therefore non-binding to sell a motor vehicle to someone who is showing obvious signs of intoxication. In other words, our lawmakers have decided […]
Are They Prepared to date you?
A while back, I was having a deep conversation with a good friend of mine. She’s a very smart woman who, in addition to many other talents, is pursuing a Ph.D in psychology. As we sat down to reconnect, she went on and on about this guy she was dating. Or more accurately, was trying […]
Going further by Carrying Less
When people discover that I’m a relationship coach, they often have a variety of curious questions. Stuff like: How do I get rid of old habits? Where are all the good women and good men? Why can’t I seem to keep a partner for more than a year? In short, I help people get from where […]
There’s No Care like self-care
It’s amazing how busy our society has become. Between phone calls, texts, emails, and the internet, it’s no short wonder our physical health gets put on the back-burner. But if you’re facing some type of emotional turmoil like a breakup, separation, or divorce, this is a most critical time to dive into self-care. In my practice, clients will […]
3 ways to beat emotional Spending and retail Therapy after a divorce
Recently, I was at one of the big malls here in San Diego. Like all malls, it’s an ocean of retail therapy. And, as I was walking through and taking it all in, I couldn’t help noticing a jewelry store with a big sign that read…. You Will Be Approved And when I saw that […]
Judgement or Evaluation- The Mindset of Healthy Boundaries
Note from Scott: “The concepts of this article could easily be applied to any relationship: romantic (dating, engaged, or married), friendship, or business. Take care and I hope you find this article helpful on your journey!” As a relationship expert, my clients will often lean on me for dating advice. And when I’m coaching singles […]
How To Courageously Step Into Your Dreams
It’s a peculiar and fascinating thing when a baby of any sort is born into this world. With absolutely no choice of its own, a baby is conceived. Two specialized cells come together to form an embryo, and through the delicate process of cell division, it quickly grows. Over time, the fetus develops to the point that […]
What’s your Religion? How to tell what’s important in life.
Religion and politics. These are potentially the most volatile topics that can be shared among people. So much so, that many a bartender has forbid these topics to even be mentioned, let alone debated, while consuming alcohol. And for good reason, these twin flames contain a certain charge that can quickly bring normally sane people to […]
How A Painful Breakup Got Me To Re-Evaluate My Relationship To “Stuff”
When I went through a crushing breakup back in 2006, I quickly discovered I had a lot of personal work to do. And I mean A LOT. And naturally, the first thingI wanted to look at was what I was doing wrong in romantic relationships. I figured the faster I could make corrections in that department, the faster I could “get […]